Congratulations, you made it through the wedding planning process! Your big day has come and gone and now it’s time for you to write thank you notes… But where to begin? You’re in luck! Let’s go over some of the most important things to know about the process and etiquette of writing thank you notes for your wedding presents.

Tips for Thank You Notes

There are a few important things to know if you’re about to start writing thank you notes to your wedding guests. Below are some of the top considerations to take into account throughout this process. Look through the following recommendations and then get excited about the thank you note writing process!

Be Timely

While your thank you cards certainly don’t need to be sent the day or even week after your wedding, it is important that they don’t get sent a year after the big event. One of the most important things about thank you cards is that they’re timely.

 

If you’re feeling overwhelmed at the thought of writing all your thank you cards, consider getting some takeout and making a night of it with your partner. This can be a great way to make sure that everyone’s helping and you don’t feel overwhelmed.

Go Digital

In today’s world, it’s completely acceptable to send digital thank you cards after your wedding. Not only can this be a budget-friendly option, but it can save you some time and a trip to the post office. Sending thank you cards can also open a lot of doors and give you more options than you would have with a digital card, so it’s definitely an option to consider before you commit to physical notes.

Choose Handwritten

When it comes to thank you cards, many people prefer receiving handwritten cards. This is a great way to add a personal touch and make sure that your guests know how appreciated they are. 

 

Keep in mind that this option will only work if you choose physical notes, so it’s not a good choice if you’re going the digital route. With that being said, there are plenty of ways that you can personalize digital notes.

Get Specific

One crucial aspect of genuine thank you cards is being specific. It’s very easy for guests to tell when they’ve received a canned thank you, so make sure that you set aside time to be specific and write from the heart.

 

While your thank you notes don’t necessarily need to be long letters, they should be long and detailed enough to show your appreciation for their presence and/or gifts.

 

PRO TIP: If you’re struggling with being specific in your thank you cards, consider adding in something about your relationship with them or a fond memory that you have together. This can be a great way to show you care if you’ve forgotten what present they gave you (which happens to the best of us).