There are so many big decisions that you need to make when you’re planning a wedding. One of the most important decisions you can make is choosing your wedding party. In this blog, we’re going to discuss some tips and tricks that you can use when you’re picking out who should be in your wedding party.

Picking Your Wedding Party

Your wedding party is most likely going to be one of the most influential things when it comes to planning your wedding. It’s important that you have the right people surrounding you on your big day, so let’s go over some things that you should think about when it comes to putting together the perfect wedding party.

Support Matters

When you’re putting together your wedding party, it’s essential to make sure that you feel supported. You deserve a high level of support on your wedding day and that should come from your wedding party.


It’s important that the people in your wedding party are open to being helpful and that they want to be supportive. If you think that one of your friends may not be supportive during your big day, then they may not be the right addition to your wedding party.

Forget the Rules

There seem to be so many rules when it comes to picking out who should stand by you on your big day. From how long you’ve known someone to your relationship dynamics, there are definitely a lot of things to consider. With that being said, it’s also important to do what feels right to you. 


Forget the rules when you’re picking out your wedding party and include the people that YOU want to include. Remember, your wedding is all about you and your partner and what you both want.


Another important thing to think about when putting together your wedding party is the logistics. While it certainly isn’t uncommon to have people who live far away in your wedding party, it can make things more difficult. 


Before you invite people to be part of your wedding party, consider thinking about the events that you’ll have and which ones they will be able to attend. It’s definitely still possible to invite people who wouldn’t be able to attend all of your events, but that is a factor to take into account.

Take Your Time

If you have some time until your wedding, then there isn’t necessarily a rush to invite people to be part of your wedding party. There are so many fun ways that you can offer that invitation, so consider doing some research and making a plan for when you are ready to make things official.


At Spring Lake Events, we love seeing the wedding party our couples choose. If you have questions about the wedding process or would like to learn more about our venue, we’d be happy to sit down with you or schedule a call at a time when we can connect.