If you’re going to be writing your own vows, then take a look at the considerations in these vows.

 

There are a lot of details to think about when it comes to planning a wedding, but writing vows is often one of the most overwhelming ones. If you don’t know where to begin or what to include, then you’ve come to the right place! Let’s go over some of our top tips for writing your own wedding vows, as well as some of the top things to consider throughout the drafting process.

Traditional or Personal?

One of the first things that you’ll need to figure out is whether you and your partner are going to use pre-written traditional vows or write your own. In this blog, we’re going to be discussing writing vows yourself, but traditional vows can still be a meaningful option.

Short and Sweet

When in doubt, it’s best to keep your wedding vows short and sweet. A couple paragraphs is often more than enough, but you can always add or subtract some content when you have your first draft done.

 

Notice what we just said? First draft! Writing multiple drafts can be a great way to be sure that you’re on the right track and your final vows are the best that they can be.

Do Your Research

Looking up other people’s vows online or watching YouTube videos of vows can be an excellent way to get inspiration and gather ideas. While you’re doing research, be sure that you pay attention to tone, cadence, length, and content. Taking note of all of these things can be a great way to make sure you’re on the right track.

Coordinate with Your Partner

When it comes to your wedding vows, most couples want to be surprised on their wedding day and keep their specific vows a secret. With that being said, it can be helpful to coordinate with your partner about the big details. Making sure that your vows are about the same length can be a great way to ensure that your ceremony seems balanced and one partner doesn’t have vows that are significantly longer than others.

Practice, Practice, Practice

When it comes to putting your wedding vows together, it’s essential to make sure that you practice them. Whether you practice them in front of a mirror or with a member of your wedding party, it’s essential to be sure that you practice. This will also mean that you’ll need to have your vows done ahead of time, so be sure to give yourself enough time to refine and perfect your vows.

Print Them Up

One detail that some people forget is to print up their vows or have them in a physical form. Reading your vows off of your phone can be tacky and take away from the moment, so consider buying a notebook specifically for your vows or finding a special way that you can record your vows for your wedding day.